Shame
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And I realize, I think, the way I was feeling that way, is on a really deep gut level, I was feeling a lot of
shame
and embarrassed, frankly, that, in some respects, I had failed at delivering what I'm genetically engineered to do.
And it turned out to be
shame.
And
shame
is really easily understood as the fear of disconnection: Is there something about me that, if other people know it or see it, that I won't be worthy of connection?
The only people who don't experience
shame
have no capacity for human empathy or connection.
I'm going in, I'm going to figure this stuff out, I'm going to spend a year, I'm going to totally deconstruct shame, I'm going to understand how vulnerability works, and I'm going to outsmart it.
So, I could tell you a lot about shame, but I'd have to borrow everyone else's time.
I kind of understood, this is what
shame
is, this is how it works.
And I know that vulnerability is the core of
shame
and fear and our struggle for worthiness, but it appears that it's also the birthplace of joy, of creativity, of belonging, of love.
Here's vulnerability, here's grief, here's shame, here's fear, here's disappointment.
I do not want to step into a vehicle and ask the question: "Why does this car smell like awkwardness, failure and shame?" (Laughter) If I want to ask that question, I'll walk into my own bedroom.
Once we're prepared to admit that after all, we're not the only beings with personalities, minds and above all feelings, and then we start to think about ways we use and abuse so many other sentient, sapient creatures on this planet, it really gives cause for deep shame, at least for me.
I feel this deep shame, and that's why in 1991 in Tanzania, I started a program that's called Roots and Shoots.
And it was a topic of shame, and no one really wanted to talk about it.
Today, judgment and
shame
surround a different issue.
And my panic at not having a self that fit, and the confusion that came from my self being rejected, created anxiety,
shame
and hopelessness, which kind of defined me for a long time.
The thing that was a source of
shame
was actually a source of enlightenment.
And it's a real
shame.
On top of that, they will be asked a barrage of questions that only serve to expose their losses and
shame.
That's the kind of
shame
that is a teacher.
The unhealthy
shame
I'm talking about is the one that makes you so sick inside.
And I went through the same period of
shame
and recriminations and felt cleansed and went back to work, until it happened again and again and again.
We'd appreciate it if you wouldn't mention vulnerability or shame."
The second thing, in addition to really finally understanding the relationship between vulnerability and courage, the second thing I learned, is this: We have to talk about
shame.
She's right here and she said, "You're the
shame
researcher who had the breakdown."
And I thought, thank God, because
shame
is this horrible topic, no one wants to talk about it.
"What do you do?" "I study shame."
I learned about these things from studying
shame.
And so I want to walk you in to
shame.
Jungian analysts call
shame
the swampland of the soul.
Cannot have that conversation without
shame.
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